Re/Pattern
For women meeting the edge of who they have been & stepping into who they are becoming.You are unraveling; the roles and identities that once shaped you. The old survival strategies are losing their usefulness. Hyper-functioning, over-giving, holding it all… it’s breaking down because the truth is, you are waking up to a path in which you move through the world with more clarity, more intimacy, more abundance…
We are entering a new era where the body must become home again.
When you no longer push past yourself or rush your own becoming, space opens. Your body begins to listen differently, choose differently, move differently; and slowly, you return to the quiet authority within you, instead of the patterns you once had to inherit to survive.
This is where the work begins:
between who you had to be to survive…
and the who you are now becoming by choice.
The women who enter this work have lost something…
A loved one. A marriage. A friendship. A version of life they thought they were building toward.As life rearranges itself, long-standing relational patterns naturally come into view. The ways you learned to connect. The ways you learned to stay close. The ways your system learned to sense others, respond, and belong. It all begins to unfold and you realize that you have been living on auto pilot for years…
For many women, this is when identity softens and expands. Relational roles become visible. Patterns of care, attunement, and responsibility reveal themselves as intelligent responses shaped by early attachment, family systems, and ancestral lineages. These strategies carried a sense of false safety, that are now ready to evolve.
Inside this work, you will discover how...Connection required adaptation, so you became who others needed, even when it meant losing touch with yourself.
Your boundaries softened to maintain closeness with those you relied on, blurring the line between love and codependence, between care and self-abandonment.
Ancestral pain perpetuated silence, emotional restraint, and self-forgetting; these imprints carved deep into your body, repeating in cycles.
Your system learned to mistake intensity for intimacy and vigilance for awareness.
You learned to confuse compassion with overextension and generosity with duty. In giving, you offered too much, unknowingly stepping into enmeshment and forgetting that authentic care grows from self-awareness, not self-erasure.
Mistrust took root, and over time, judgment became fear: fear of being wrong, of being uninformed, of being naïve. This distortion veiled your sense of self and dimmed your inner insight.
The clarity and strength you long for still live within you, hidden beneath layers of adaptation and protection.
I know you feel like everything is falling apart, and that life is presenting you with a chapter of endings…
But this is just the beginning…Many of the strategies you learned in scarcity shaped how you moved through the the relationships in your life; people-pleasing, perfectionism, and fawning once helped you feel safe. Over time they also created distance from your own voice, your own needs, and the intimacy you long for.
As these patterns dissolve, your system begins to remember what trust feels like. It remembers the steadiness of belonging. It remembers the guidance that rises when you are no longer bracing for what might go wrong.
In our sessions, we weave somatic process, unconscious repatterning, ritual, Human Design, and energy work. Each practice opens a pathway back to what has always lived within you:
Your own timing. Your own vulnerability. Your own way of being in relationship.
This work is relational, embodied, and deeply attuned to your nervous system and your lineage. Here, you grow toward more connection, more spaciousness, and more of yourself.
What blooms from this work…
The disconnection you learned through emotional distance, self-reliance, or staying in your head gathers itself into integration and coherence, allowing you to stay present in relationship without losing yourself.
The constriction you experienced through holding back needs, desires, or truth dissolves into movement, aliveness, and the ability to express yourself more freely with others.
The stories and narratives that shaped how you see yourself in relationship, questioning your worth, your intuition, or your needs, shift into a clear understanding of who you are and what you deserve.
The shame carried around needing too much, wanting closeness, or having emotional depth dissolves into liberation and authentic expression within your relationships.
The masking you practiced to be agreeable, easy, or emotionally contained softens into safety to inhabit your full presence in every situation.
The isolation you chose through withdrawing, over-independence, or emotional guarding opens into community connection and mutual intimacy.
The enmeshment that formed through over-giving, emotional responsibility for others, or blurred boundaries evolves into sovereign belonging and self-trust.
The Framework
Your healing is sacred, and your rhythm is unique. Every step is attuned to your energy; meeting you exactly where you are, with care, presence, and precision.Weekly 90-Min SessionsVirtual sessions that help your body release patterns of bracing and protection.
Soul-Crafted SupportA curated ritual package full of resources and energetic tools designed to nourish you mailed strait to you.
Audio Library + WorkbookGuided resources to hold you between sessions and deepen new neural pathways.
Three-Month DevotionThis three-month container allows time for integration, devotion, and the embodiment.
Voxer Coaching Continued guidance outside of session. Space to process, anchor insights, and stay supported.
Modality IntegrationHypnosis, breathwork, channeled guidance, Parts Integration, Reiki, NLP, Human Design, and ritual.
I know what it’s like to have lost touch with who I am, in relationship with another; be it friend, family, or partner…
And along the way, I have shed more versions of myself than I can count. Each layer I’ve lost has brought me that much closer to who I am in my fullest expression, and, in turn, closer to the kind of community that can hold me without asking me to shrink.
I know the landscape of distortion intimately. Early wounds of feeling unseen and shaped by codependent roles taught me how to mask; how to stay close to people without ever letting myself be seen.
Over time, I learned that the truth of any relationship begins with the truth I’m willing to hold inside myself. If I cannot name the fears, the spirals, the ache; then I cannot fully arrive.
This work grew from learning to live from what is raw and vulnerable, not from the strategies that kept connection at the cost of my belonging. It came from remembering my heart is good, and from calling in people who can meet my depth without needing me to bend or perform.
Healing shame requires relationship… Healing identity requires being witnessed... Healing fragmentation requires being reflected in wholeness...
This is why I built Re/Pattern; a ceremonial, relational sanctuary for women who are done doing this alone.
Inside this space you begin to move differently… breathe differently… choose differently.
Your nervous system learns what safety feels like in real time. Your clarity becomes something you live in your body, not something you chase in your mind. Your boundaries become embodied choices rather than protective theories. Your voice becomes expressed and rooted, not negotiated or softened.
This is where your path begins to unwind from old karmic loops and align with what is finally meant for you.
Client Love & Experiences
“This experience shifted everything rapidly & with lasting impact. It's a shift in how I engage with life as I actively continue to disrupt old neural patterns that falsely promise safety. I am no longer stuck or paralyzed."
-Sara S.
“Our sessions were eye opening, life affirming, and contributed to my personal well-being in ways I could not have imagined before our first session together.”
-Kamala B.
“I let go of perfectionism and the nagging feeling of not being enough. Each session helped me unearth parts of myself I had long overlooked. I’ve emerged from this journey more connected to myself than ever before.”
-Laura M.
FAQ
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This space is for those ready to move beyond surface healing. The ones who have done the therapy, read the books, and followed every thread of self-work, yet still feel something within waiting to be met.
It is for those longing for depth, embodiment, and a life that feels like home again. For the ones who sense a new chapter stirring and are ready to walk toward it with devotion.
This work is not a quick fix.
If you are looking only for advice, mindset shifts, or results without entering the body, energy, and spirit of the work, this may not be your season for it. This space asks for presence, curiosity, and a willingness to meet yourself fully.
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A full-spectrum healing process blending hypnosis, breathwork, parts integration, Reiki, NLP, Human Design, astrology, and divination, uniquely woven to your system. Each session meets you where you are and guides you back to inner alignment and ease.
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Your Workbook and Re/Pattern Library hold you between sessions, offering over 100 pages of reflections, rituals, and frequency-based practices. You will also receive guided recordings, meditations, and activations that steady your nervous system and nurture your spirit.
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We begin with a three-month devotion, meeting weekly for 90-minute sessions.
This is slow, intentional work. If you need to pause for integration, the time is extended so you still receive all twelve sessions. Afterward, you can continue month to month if you feel called.
You will also have access to a private Voxer channel for continued guidance and reflection between sessions. This space allows you to process, receive coaching, and integrate insights into daily life.
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Re/Pattern is priced on a sliding scale to honor different levels of access, privilege, and season of life. You are invited to select the rate that feels nourishing, spacious, and aligned. There are three guiding rates:
Community Offering ~ $2,400/in full or $800/monthly
This rate exists to nourish those who are carrying a lot while also choosing to be in this work.
You might feel most aligned with the Community Rate if your current season includes things like
living with the impacts of systemic oppression or discrimination
receiving public assistance or tending ongoing medical or immigration expenses
offering a great deal of emotional or practical labor in lower paid caregiving or community roles
providing financial care for family or community members
Choosing this rate allows you to be held by the container while staying resourced in your wider life.
True Cost Offering~ $5,300/in full or $1767/monthly
This rate reflects the actual cost of holding and sustaining The Re/Pattern.
You might feel most aligned with the True Cost Rate if
your income consistently meets your needs
you have room for ease, small luxuries, and rest
this investment feels like a meaningful stretch that you can meet with steadiness and intention
Many women land here.
Redistribution Offering ~ $7,100/in full or $2367/monthly
This rate is for those who feel called to weave community care into their investment and to help expand access for others in the circle.
You might feel most aligned with the Redistribution Rate if
you own the home you live in or have long term housing stability
you have savings, investments, retirement accounts, or inherited money
you are able to travel for pleasure or receive family financial support when needed
you have strong earning power connected to education, race, gender, or class privilege
Choosing this rate is an act of generosity that strengthens the whole field of the work.
When you tell yourself the truth, that things aren’t working…
you open yourself up to the possibility that something new, can take it's place.Re/Pattern is here to hold you through the unfolding.
⍤ Weekly 90-minute virtual sessions
⍤ Twelve private coaching sessions in total
⍤ Weekly personalized devotion exercises and rituals
⍤ Access to my guides and spirit team to help ground and clear old patterns
⍤ Ongoing Voxer coaching between sessions
⍤ Three-month minimum commitment
Investment:
Re/Pattern is priced on a sliding scale to honor different levels of access, privilege, and season of life. You are invited to select the rate that feels nourishing, spacious, and aligned. There are three guiding rates:
Redistribution Offering ~ $7,100/in full or $2367/monthly
This rate is for those who feel called to weave community care into their investment and to help expand access for others in the circle.
You might feel most aligned with the Redistribution Rate if
you own the home you live in or have long term housing stability
you have savings, investments, retirement accounts, or inherited money
you are able to travel for pleasure or receive family financial support when needed
you have strong earning power connected to education, race, gender, or class privilege
Choosing this rate is an act of generosity that strengthens the whole field of the work.
True Cost Offering~ $5,300/in full or $1767/monthly
This rate reflects the actual cost of holding and sustaining Re/Pattern.
You might feel most aligned with the True Cost Rate if
your income consistently meets your needs
you have room for ease, small luxuries, and rest
this investment feels like a meaningful stretch that you can meet with steadiness and intention
Many women & fems land here.
Community Offering ~ $2,400/in full or $800/monthly
This rate exists to nourish those who can meet their basic bills right now, but paying a higher rate would stretch your budget too thin.
This rate may be the best fit if:
you can cover necessities, but there is not much left over each month
a higher rate would mean dipping into savings, taking on debt, or falling behind
you are in lower-paid caregiving, service, or community work that requires a lot of you
you are supporting family members or contributing to your community financially
you are navigating the impacts of discrimination or systemic barriers that affect your stability
Choosing this rate allows you to be held by the container without overwhelming your income or creating pressure in your day-to-day life.